The Title

"I want the title (the title), I wanna be known as your girl, I wanna kick it with you like your best friend, So let a girl come into your world, I wanna be your lady" - Ciara, "Title"

Yes bloggers and readers, I am back to talk about this month's adventures. Not really. But I have finally claimed this man as my boyfriend and it feels good.  Lol, I have to laugh at myself.  Once again, I am falling into the trap of always wanting to talk about him and I told my dad. He was like, "What boyfriend? Boyfriend, oh when did this happen?" I love that man but he cracks me up sometimes.  I guess I need to catch up to my man when he has been sending pictures and texting everyone of "his girl". I have to say, it's nice to have someone wanting to claim you and profess their love for you to others.  But what I really wanted to record was our Facebook conversation from earlier.  I think it could really help some who are coming together and are talking about things like marriage and the etc.

Me: Compromise and dares lol. Omg the dating life.

Him: S*** married life gets worse. lol.

Me: Haha how so? You talk as if you have experience.

Him: Cause we know what each other like and what we should expect from each other and to promise till death do us part to meet each others' needs forever that says a lot love.

Me: Lol true but some people don't take those vows seriously. I wish more did though. Probably wouldn't be so many divorces or empty marriages.

Him: Well s*** I believe vows come from the heart and should really express what I truly feel about heading into life term relationship with you and really keeping it 100 with where I'm at mentally, physically, and spiritually myself and ask God to walk with us as we enter into this world as one.

Me: Yep well said babe well said.

Him: Thanks.

Me: Those vows are more than a promise but a commitment to God and then to each other.

Him: Exactly.

Yep, these are the conversations that really rock my socks. It's weird, I haven't had the itch to think about things like weddings and future life in a really long time.  But this man makes me feel some type of way, I have been working on my patience and my tendencies to over think things and blow things out of proportion.  My biggest battles yet.

Stay tuned lovers.

Four words

"You are my everything."

Four words, and I am back with another tale of my wondrous, yet inconsistent love life. At least I feel like I can pour my soul here on this blog.

I wish I could say I knew what happened from between now and a few years back but honestly, I really do not know. I really am scratching my head from how this man went from Second Best to Prince Charming. I have to admit  I was shocked to read the text for a third chance (or whichever number we are on). But the joy deep down in my heart was unable to be contained, for the future of the magic we are making.

He has been kind. He has been sweet and sending me love messages, remembered my birthday and prayed consistently for me when we are together and apart. Lord knows I love a man who can pray.  I just feel so blessed and a part of me is wondering when all this is going to come crashing down, it all seems too good to be true. Yet, every part of me is going to enjoy all this good lovin while it lasts.  Because I am his everything but he is my king. Stay tuned, lovers.